7. For My Ladies

"Our society is harming themselves by the practice of that lifestyle.  …and many of those same individuals call those who worship Jesus Christ the crazy ones?!!  Really?…You sure?!" -Blog 6

  

     As many now know, one of the things my old lifestyle was consumed with was “urban modeling".  When I'd pose in a manner that only my future husband should have seen, not a view which should be caught on camera for the whole world to observe; so I understand how women fall into this. But I find myself now coming across girls who've been doing this for years. …My thoughts are, "Ladies what are You thinking, or is the problem that you aren't at all???  When will you grow up?" I may be stepping on toes right now, but seriously someone has to Speak up.  I’ll be honest, I log into my Facebook and every day I see women posing in thongs, all oiled up, in heavy makeup like a prostitute, puckering lips, their genitals faced towards the camera almost exposing everything of which makes them A WOMAN.

I shake my head, I don’t understand how these females can keep acting this way. …Like, when is it going to get OLD ladies, when is it going to click for you??  Don’t you realize how pathetic you look, even to the men "commenting" on your pictures???  Why are you giving it away?! And the misconception is when we say don't give it away for free, you go and try to sell it! No sweetheart, you're taking it out of context.  Listen, we think women are “second class” citizens in many middle-eastern countries, but we are hoeing our own! So…who’s REALLY the second class? Sex trafficking is also an issue in those countries but pathetically, many of the women in America are trafficking themselves. Just attempt to wrap your mind around that!

 Sadly, many of these ladies are just going along with it, like “I’ll show my backside to the world, oh well. I’ll let a rapper and his posse run through me, oh well. I’ll allow this pro-athlete to impregnate me and kill my dreams, oh well. I’ll get an STD from a celeb and it will ruin my life, oh well. I’ll show my breasts for all men to see just so I can get some compliments, oh well. I’ll be the object men fantasize about when they touch themselves, oh well. I’ll waste my life acting like I’m Miss Independent even though I’M the PRODUCT being sold, oh well… 

     I just need attention so I’ll display my naked body just to receive some acknowledgment, oh well. My parents left me so I’ll just take off my clothes for money as an excuse instead of being a strong woman about it, oh well. I’ll sell my soul and values for this fame, like Drake says, “Maybe for the money and the power and the fame right now She will, she will, she will”.  Yeah, because he already knows his little groupies will!! …But oh well right?!” ARE YOU SERIOUS???!

This is many times frustrating and that is when I have to ask God to give me the strength and patience to be here for these women—because I’d be lying if I said I didn’t care. We OBVIOUSLY can’t depend on the “typical” man in this society because he’s PROMOTING it.

 Ladies I just want this message to resonate with you...I hope sooner than later you realize how beautiful and worthy you are. You haven't dated the faithful, honest, respectful, men of God yet because you have to change your ways first. I hope you come to see that is possible through the grace of God...only God can change you, but first you have to realize the current wrong doings in your life. I used to be where you are, I used to do those things I just spoke of. But now I know many men who meet that criteria of being a good husband whenever God calls —My next blog is about those differences in men I had no idea even existed, but trust me sisters, they do and you will see. The good men aren't attracted to that slutty persona, so you're going to have to change your life up. Be a better woman for you, for God, your children, your parents, your siblings...our future. Only you can make that choice. I love you all....peace.